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Rat Man with Ox (Buffalo) Woman
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This is perhaps one of the best relationships known to Chinese astrologers, be it simply an affair or more seriously a marriage. The partners complement each other marvelously. There is little ground for antagonism although there exist quite a number of differences between them which, however, can be surmounted with a minimum of effort.
The Buffalo woman, with her heels well dug in, so to speak, will give the Rat a reassuring feeling of security which he badly needs. She will have an easy answer to every problem, thus allaying his tendency to fret about everything. On the other hand, the Rat man can bring her refinement, flexibility and openmindedness. Financial difficulties are not expected to come and plague them since both are good with money and keen on saving.
The problem of infidelity is unlikely to arise as the Buffalo, a confirmed puritan, has a strong sense of property and will not let her Rat have the slightest chance to deviate. A major stumbling block on their path to happiness may be that they will tend to shield themselves from the outside world. Without an outward-looking attitude, it would be difficult for them to save their love life from pedestrianism and provincialism.
On the sexual plane, each is as hardy as the other, although there may be some difference between them as to the frequency of their desires. This problem can generally be solved to the satisfaction of both owing to their frankness. But the Buffalo woman is not a person to talk or hear talking about sex outside the bedroom or before nightfall, and so the Rat would do well never to hurt her particular sense of decency.
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