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Monkey Man with Rabbit (Cat) Woman
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With a Monkey man, just as with a Goat man, the Cat will have to modify her natural comportment drastically if she wants their conjugal life to run smoothly. She will not have to be jealous of other women - for The Monkey is not a professional womanizer as his Goat brother - but of the whole world. Although not too self-centered herself, she will find it hard to put up with this man whose involvement in life is so deep that he will tend to literally forget her and leave every problem of their household to her care. For example, she may look forward to spending a cozy evening with him, but he may unexpectedly dash out of their intimate dinner, without even giving her a glance, to bring assistance to a troubled friend of his. She must expect such frustrations to be an integral part of her daily life.
The Monkey man's real interests being beyond the sphere of his immediate surroundings, the Cat will have to forgo her innate passivity and learn to take everything in her hands at home if serious difficulties are to be averted.
But however execrable his irresponsibility, absent-mindedness, and erratic behavior, the Monkey will always manage to secure forgiveness from his mate. Indeed, this is an extremely charming man in his own way, and the Cat will steadily feel attracted to him. For all his forgetfulness in major things, he is almost never oblivious of nice little things such as a magnificent bouquet of roses for her birthday or a passionate phone call to her during one of his street demonstrations. The result is that tenderness and gentleness will be made an indissociable component of their union.
Their physical intimacy will present no major problems since both partners are only mildly interested in sex - each for his own reasons, which are completely different from those of the other. Their lovemaking pattern will be irregular, unpredictable. Not rarely will they experience their sexual intercourse with such cool detachment that they will seem to be surveying a subject of study. In any case they will not insist that their sexual union offer everything it could and should offer.
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